那些独自旅行的年轻人,都在想些什么?

那些独自旅行的年轻人,都在想些什么?



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每年都会一个人出去旅行一到两次,不用化妆不用拍照,纯粹为了放松心情,练练口语,爱晃大街就晃大街,爱躺酒店就躺酒店...

                                
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也有很多次,身边总有人用异样的眼光和口气:“一个人?一个人有什么好玩的,呵~”


在长滩岛,刚好遇到了一些有趣的独行者,有个晚上大家一起在屋顶喝酒聊天,当时我突然想,莫非大家都是别人眼中的“异类”?大家都是什么想法呢?他们有什么故事呢?

(为了避免翻译有误,附上了当事人英语回答原文)

那些独自旅行的年轻人,都在想些什么?
那些独自旅行的年轻人,都在想些什么?


【Tiona 】

26   女 emergency office  在急诊室工作

美国 乔治亚


"My mom had me when she was 23, then she got divorced . in Georgia, women normally hard to get married again in this situation,becuz you are not virgin anymore, no man will want you anymore。"

T : “我出生的那年我妈妈23岁,后来她离婚了。在乔治亚,这样的情况下,女性通常比较难再婚,因为这意味着你不再是是处女了,没有男人会再想得到你。”


Q : “how does your mom think of it?”。

那你妈妈当时怎么想?


“she thought it is silly, then she wants to moved to America, sometimes you can’t not change the environment around you,americans are different, a man still wants you。”

T:她觉得(这件事)挺蠢的,后来她搬到了美国,有的时候你无法改变周遭的环境,美国人不同,男人不会介意过往婚史。


“I think this is the best part of traveling, you never know what stories you are gonnna hear,what life they are living,sometimes good ,sometimes worse,but it always makes you to appreciate。”

T:我想这就是旅行最棒的部分,你永远不知道将要听到怎样的故事,不知道对方过着怎样的生活,有的时候(他们的生活)很好,有的时候很糟,但是旅途中遇到的,听到的总能让你学会感恩。


"My grandma in Georgia gave birth to my mum when she was 13, can you imaging a girl

Had baby when she just had her period?"

T:在乔治亚,我外婆在13岁的时候生下了我妈妈,你能想象一个女孩在刚来例假的年纪就生孩子了吗?


“ I think woman can get married at any age she wants ,and anyone she want to marry with.”

T: 我想女人可以自由决定她想在什么年纪,与怎样的人结婚。





【Louise 】

27 男 西班牙 银行工作/海洋摄影师


1. Most dangerous experience you ever had during your journey?

能说说你在旅途中曾遇到过最危险的情况吗?


A:  Costa Rica,3 in the morning, the ATM was closed at 10.pm. beacuse of some problems, so I didn’t have any money. Then there was a bank on the street, some people came to me, I took out a stick, and I sharp it with a knife, just in case… nothing happened, you know what I mean?

在哥斯达黎加的时候,有一个夜晚,在凌晨3点的时候,我身上没有钱而ATM也关门了,街上有一家银行,这个时候有一群人朝我走过来,我拿出一根木棍,用随身带刀削尖了它,以防万一..最后什么也没发生


2. If ask you to make a ranking of your life, what you would put at the 1st place? 

如果让你对人生重要的几件事情排序,什么对你而言是最重要的呢?


A : The fist thing? emm… that is difficult to answer.  I go for love. L is the most beautiful thing ever. I didn’t mean love between a man and a woman . It is the love about the things you like, things you do, I go for love, because if love is ok, then everything just come together like your life is happier, for me love is the first.

最重要的事情..这个问题有点难回答。我认为是爱, 爱是世界上最美好的事情,我不是指男女之间的爱情,而是你对一些事情的热爱。我始终认为,如果生活中有“爱”,其余的东西也就随之而来,我们的生命也就更快乐。


And the 2nd place will be ??

那排在第二位的呢?


The second, right this moment, to be honest, probably time? Time is important . Actually I put time first, because with time, you got no love. So first of all , I got time.

当下,诚实的说,我觉得第二重要的,或许是时间吧,或许时间反而是第一位的,因为如果没有时间,你也就无法找到“爱”。


3. When’s your last  relationship and how long did it last?你的上一段感情在什么时候,持续了多久?


A: It was 7/8 months ago, it last like 6 months,大概是在七八个月前吧,这段关系持续了半年左右。


4. How do you feel about it?

你如何看待这段关系?


A: well,  I don’t know, I kind of miss her sometimes, but we were no longer with each other,I wish to be her friends, but she blocked me on facebook, whatsapp, so I cant talk to her。We are no longer friends, we to talk anymore.

怎么说呢, 有的时候我很想她,但是我们已经不是恋人,也不是朋友了,不会再彼此交谈。我希望彼此做回朋友,但是她把我的脸书,whatsapp都屏蔽了,所以我没办法联系她。


5. How ofter  do you travel alone, and whats the best part of it?

通常你多久独自旅行一次?你认为独自旅行最棒的部分在哪?

A: best part of traveling along? Is definitely knowing yourself. Until  you r alone,you don’t know how to react, how to behave.  You start to think things you cant, you can do ,and things you want, things you don’t want. Your know yourself, thats the best part of it.

独自旅行最好的部分绝对是更加了解我们自己。当我们长时间一个人的时候,会不知作何反应,如何自处。你会开始思考什么事你可以做,什么不能, 会思索自己想要什么,而什么又是自己不想要的, 你开始更了解自己,这是最棒的部分。


It is the different kind of knowing yourself,, I mean you hanging out, you going out with your friends as well, but you learn only if you are alone, you need to discuss with yourself ,so you know yourself.

这不是平时的自我了解, 比如说你也会和朋友出去玩,但是只有真正一个人的时候才能去思考(获得)些什么, 你会需要与内在的自己谈话。


5. How do you think of pain, not physical  pain,  I mean tough times.

你怎么看待生活艰难的时候?


A: It is something you know You need to live, it is something you learn from pain or suffering, it is negative but you need to take the  positive things from there, it is like, you learn from pain or suffering,

你知道你需要与它共生, 从煎熬当中去汲取养分。困难的时候一切都看似消极,但你需要从中看到乐观的一面,你要知道苦难自然也带给你成长。


Normally how your deal with tough times?like watch movies,

I probably try to being with my friends or family. Not to think got much about the problem, being with people, going  your head is tracked ,not to think on.

我大部分是可能都倾向于和家人,朋友在一起。尽可能不去想这件事(烦恼),和其他人呆在一起,让脑子分散注意力。


6.  How do you think of Chinese?

A:  I dont know many Chinese. There is one in my restaurant, they are in their own groups, chinses groups, they don’t get in contact with other foreigners, kind of “cold people”.

我不认识很多中国人。我的餐馆里有一个中国人, 他们好像总是在他们的圈子里呆着, 不太与其他外国人交流,有些冷漠。




【Young】

德国 ,24 毕业大学生 IT公司实习中


1. Most dangerous traveling experience you ever had?

能说说你在旅途中遇过最危险的情况吗?


A :em… almost falling out of a car in Cuba.

呃,在古巴的时候我差点从一辆车里掉下来。


em. The driver started it, and I was sitting in the back. And he was driving a curve, and the door opened, and I was like “ oh,,, fuck!” I mean these cars in Cuba was like shit,nothing works, nothing.  No like how much fuel,  nothing work.  You don’t have the “inside” of the car, It was missing.  This was a little bit terrifying , you don’t trust them,

当时我坐在汽车后座,司机发动汽车后突然来了一个急转弯,这时候车门突然开了, 我心里有一个声音在说“天哪,妈的”, 你知道在古巴这些汽车就像垃圾一样, 很多问题, 你并不是“坐”在车里,更像一个车架子, 车况有些令人害怕, 你也很难相信它。


2.  If ask you to make a ranking of your life, what you would put at the 1st place?  

如果要给你生命中最重要的事情排序,你会选择哪些呢?


A: whooo。。。。。Deep  breath.

恩...(深呼吸)

Have a good time. Just have good  time, do what  you wanna do, dont get destructed becuz anybody says “oh you can’t … you shouldnt. ” just do it, if you wanna do sth, just do it. Enjoy your time,  if you wanna try ice sucky game , no one wanna join in, fuck it , just go, nobody wants to travel with you , just go. Do whatever  you want.

尽可能的享受快乐。快乐就好,去做你想做的,别因为任何人说“你不能..不可以”而心烦意乱,而是直接去做,享受你该享受的快乐。如果你想尝试滑冰、游戏, 没有人想同你一起?去他的,直接上吧。没有人想和你一同去旅行?直接一个人出发吧,去做你想做的。


3. When’s your last  relationship and how long did it last?

你的上一段感情是什么时候呢?


A : 4/5 years ago. It lasts almost 2 years.

大概四五年前吧,(这段关系)持续了两年。


We don’t talk to each other anymore.

我们没有联系了。


4. How ofter  do you travel alone, and whats the best part of it?

通常你多久独自旅行一次?最棒的部分在哪?


A : It is my second time traveling alone.

this trip   I really enjoyed it like meeting so many different people, and just like immediately .

becuz I dont know, when I stay in this hostel, it took me 15mins to find friends, like I met this guy on rooftop bar,  we had a beer。

这是我第二次一个人的旅行。

我很享受这次旅行的经历, 认识很多不同的人,好像就是忽然之间,比如在这里,大概只花了15分钟我认识了这哥们, 我们在天台上一起喝了啤酒。


I talked to so many filipinos,there was one night , there are 8/9 nations mixed together. We had a good time.  I think this is This is the best part.

我和很多本地人聊天,有次我们大概有8~9个来自不同国家的人在一块,度过了非常快乐的一个夜晚。我想这就是(一个人旅行)最棒的部分。


5. How do you think of pains, not physical  pains,  I mean tough times.

你怎么看待生活艰难的时候?


A: I dont know,just keep going。You can be angry, be mad about it , like forever you will not be happy again

Just do things you like.

我不知道怎么说,就是坚持住吧。

你可以觉得愤怒,好像你再也不会觉得快乐了, 继续做你想做的事吧。


6.  How do you think of Chinese?

你对中国人印象如何?


A: I hate these guys! I hate this, they  always asking me stupid questions. ( laugh aloud)

Impression?  Always taking pictures,  you see they are taking pictures of fucking everything, and thats it.

我讨厌这些家伙(大笑),他们总是在问一些蠢问题,印象?好像总是在拍照, 你看到他们永远拿着相机在自拍(比划手势),大概就是这样。



                             后  记


去长滩的时候是去年3月,整理文字却是很久之后的事了, 很多当时的感触也已经遗忘,唯一没有忘的,是那些天来自七八个国家的人雷打不动的每天聚在一起shisha,看超美的日落...

           (mango和日落是最好的搭配)


文首提到每每有人鄙视那些一个人旅行的人的另类、怪异、无趣时,我总是笑笑不置可否。(认真解释这件事太文艺太2了)


和tiona是单独聊天,所以跑题了,可能因为更关注女性的话题,在海边聊了一下午。旅行的话,文中的Louise的观点大概就是我一直以来不愿说出口的想法(跟人说要换个地方一个人静静不是被人说矫情死吗),一年365天,我们忙着与各种事周旋,各种人相处,唯独留白一段时间,跟自己去相处。


更别提在这个过程中,也会遇到很多同路人,听到很多有意思的故事(下次更新)。


当思想跳脱出躯壳,一个人的旅程也就不孤单了。


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